Hubungan Antara Kecemburuan Dan Tipe Kelekatan Pada Pasangan Berpacaran Mahasiswa Universitas Pendidikan Indonesia

Ega Noviantika Hartanti, Drs. MIF Baihaqi, M. Si., Anastasia Wulandari, M. Psi, Psikolog

Abstract


Salah satu masalah yang dapat menimbulkan emosi negatif dalam hubungan berpacaran yaitu kecemburuan. Berkaitan dengan kecemburuan, perbedaan gaya kelekatan romantis yang dimiliki oleh individu dapat mempengaruhi pola ekspresi kecemburuan. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui hubungan antara kecemburuan dan tipe kelekatan pada pasangan berpacaran mahasiswa Universitas Pendidikan Indonesia. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode kuantitatif dengan desain korelasional. Sampel penelitian ini sebanyak 371 orang menggunakan metode purposive sampling dengan kriteria mahasiswa Universitas Pendidikan Indonesia, sedang berpacaran dan pernah atau sedang merasakan kecemburuan dari diri sendiri atau pasangannya. Penelitian ini menggunakan dua instrument yaitu Interpersonal Jealousy Scale (IJS) untuk mengukur variabel kecemburuan dan The Experiences in Close Relationship-Revised Questionnaire (ECR-R) untuk mengukur tipe kelekatan. Hasil penelitian ini menunjukkan adanya hubungan antara kecemburuan dan kedua tipe kelekatan menghindar (avoidant) dan kecemasan (anxiety) pada pasangan berpacaran mahasiswa Universitas Pendidikan Indonesia.


Keywords


Kecemburuan, Tipe Kelekatan

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